John Fetterman speaks onstage as his wife, Gisele Barreto Fetterman, looks on.
John Fetterman speaks onstage as his wife, Gisele Barreto Fetterman, looks on in August 2022.
  • John Fetterman and Gisele Barreto Fetterman have been married for 14 years and have three children.
  • When he had a stroke days before the Democratic primaries, Gisele delivered speeches in his place.
  • Fetterman, now a US senator, is currently being treated for depression at Walter Reed hospital.
2007: Gisele Barreto Fetterman wrote a letter to John Fetterman, then the mayor of Braddock, Pennsylvania, to see how she could get involved in his mission to revitalize the town.
John Fetterman and Gisele Fetterman
Gisele Barreto Fetterman and John Fetterman.

John Fetterman served as the mayor of Braddock from 2006 to 2019. Dubbed "America's coolest mayor" by The Guardian in 2009, he gained national attention for his efforts to bring new life to the struggling Rust Belt town, creating jobs with grants for youth employment programs and turning abandoned buildings into arts spaces and community centers.

Gisele Fetterman, who worked as a nutritionist and food justice activist in Newark, New Jersey, read an article about him in a magazine and wrote a letter to Braddock asking how she could help, she told Philly Mag. She eventually connected with John Fetterman and traveled to Braddock to meet him. They exchanged more letters before beginning a long-distance relationship.

"I wrote a letter to the borough sharing the work that I was doing, and that I wanted to visit and learn and do something — whatever that looked like," she told People magazine in 2021. "The letter ultimately ended up with John. We talked on the phone, I planned the visit, and that's how I first got to Braddock."

May 2008: John Fetterman proposed after nine months of dating.
John Fetterman and Gisele Fetterman kiss onstage during a rally
John Fetterman and Gisele Barreto Fetterman kiss as he takes the stage to speak at a rally in November 2022.

He proposed with a vintage ring his parents had bought at an estate sale when he was young, he told People magazine.

June 2008: They eloped on a road trip to Burlington, Vermont.
John and Gisele Fetterman
John Fetterman and Gisele Barreto Fetterman in January 2023.

"I just thought that this was the person I wanted to take a chance with," John Fetterman told People magazine.

February 2009: They welcomed their first child, Karl.
Gisele Fetterman with her son Karl Fetterman
Gisele Barreto Fetterman with her son, Karl, in May 2022.

John Fetterman wished Karl a happy birthday on Twitter in 2022.

"Exactly 13 years ago today, I experienced the joy + awe for the 1st time ever, of becoming a father," he wrote. "No title will ever match 'Dad.'"

August 2011: Their daughter, Grace, was born.
John Fetterman and Gisele Fetterman with their three children holding signs at a vigil
John Fetterman and Gisele Barreto Fetterman with their three children holding signs at a vigil in 2018. Grace is second from the left.

Grace shares a birthday with her father, who was born on August 15, 1969.

April 2014: The Fettermans' youngest child, August, was born.
John Fetterman holds his son August on his shoulders
John Fetterman with his son, August.

In April 2020, during the early days of the pandemic, the Fettermans had to cancel August's 6th birthday party. Gisele Fetterman shared a photo on Twitter of the stuffed animal "guests" that attended, instead.

November 2016: John Fetterman ran in the Democratic primary for a Pennsylvania Senate seat, but Katie McGinty ultimately secured the nomination.
John Fetterman speaks to supporters at a campaign event in 2016
John Fetterman shows off his tattoos as he speaks with supporters during his meet and greet campaign stop at the Interstate Drafthouse in Philadelphia in April 2016.

While campaigning, John Fetterman showed off the tattoos on his right arm memorializing the dates of murders that occurred in Braddock while he was mayor. He also has Braddock's zip code, 15104, tattooed on his left arm.

McGinty lost the general election to Republican Pat Toomey.

November 2018: John Fetterman was elected lieutenant governor of Pennsylvania, and Gisele Fetterman became the second lady of Pennsylvania, or as she affectionately called it, "SLOP."
John Fetterman and Gisele Fetterman in 2019
John Fetterman and Gisele Fetterman at the state Capitol in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, in 2019.

The Fettermans opted not to move into the lieutenant governor's residence in Harrisburg, instead using it for public programming. Gisele Fetterman oversaw an initiative to open the mansion's pool to members of the public and nonprofits providing swim lessons for children in 2019.

"Gisele and I have always maintained that if our children are welcome to swim in this pool, so should every other child in Pennsylvania," John Fetterman told Fox43 News in 2021.

June 2019: John Fetterman displayed pride flags on Pennsylvania's capitol building for the first time in the state's history and attended Pride Month events with his family.
John Fetterman at a Pride Month event in 2019
John Fetterman at a Pride Month event in 2019.

He also held a rainbow light display at the state capitol building in honor of Pride Month, the Pennsylvania Capital-Star reported.

Gisele Fetterman, who is bisexual, posted photos with her family at pride events wearing a shirt that read, "If you play for both teams you'll always win."

May 2022: When her husband had a stroke days before the Democratic primary in his second Senate race, Gisele Fetterman took over his campaign appearances and delivered his acceptance speech.
Gisele Fetterman speaks at a campaign event for John Fetterman
Gisele Barreto Fetterman speaks during a campaign rally in September 2022.

On the way to a campaign event on May 13, Gisele Fetterman noticed the corner of her husband's mouth droop and insisted that he get checked out at a hospital. It turned out to be a stroke that nearly killed him.

The stroke impaired John Fetterman's ability to speak smoothly and impacted his auditory processing abilities, forcing him to take a break from the campaign trail. As he recovered, Gisele Fetterman took his place at public appearances, and even delivered his acceptance speech when he won the Democratic Senate primary.

"It's easy because I know his message, and I love him, and I know how good he is, and I get to tell that to people," she told the Washington Post.

November 2022: John Fetterman defeated Mehmet Oz in the midterms, flipping a Republican-held seat and helping Democrats maintain control of the Senate.
John Fetterman and his family on election night in November 2022
John Fetterman speaks to supporters with his family during an election night party in November 2022.

"I voted for that guy!" Gisele Fetterman told reporters as she left the polling station on election day, pointing at her husband.

In his victory speech that night, John Fetterman thanked his family and his wife, "who, six months ago, saved my life."

January 2023: Gisele Fetterman held the Bible as her husband was sworn in as a US senator.
John Fetterman is sworn in as a US Senator
Vice President Kamala Harris ceremonially swears in Senator John Fetterman in January 2023.

John Fetterman traded his trademark hoodies and shorts for a new suit. Gisele Fetterman wore a thrifted Temperley London dress she found on The Real Real for $69, Philly Mag reported.

Gisele Fetterman has often shared photos on social media of her and her husband with his head out of the frame in order to fit her entire outfit into the picture.

"It's been going on for a few years and I still giggle every time," she told the LGBTQ+ blog Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents in 2019 of the running joke. "John is very tall and when cropping for Instagram photos, I would lose my shoes if I left his head in there.  The shoes won and they continue to win, every time."

February 2023: Gisele Fetterman expressed support for her husband after he checked into Walter Reed hospital to receive treatment for depression.
Gisele Fetterman speaks to members of the press in 2022
Gisele Barreto Fetterman speaks to reporters in 2022.

Adam Jentleson, Fetterman's chief of staff, said in a statement that the senator has experienced depression "off and on throughout his life," but that it "became severe in recent weeks."

John Fetterman is currently being treated at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center, where Jentleson said he is "receiving treatment on a voluntary basis."

"After examining John, the doctors at Walter Reed told us that John is getting the care he needs, and will soon be back to himself," Jentleson said.

Post-stroke depression (PSD) is common, with studies estimating it affects about one in every three people in the year after their stroke. That rate is at least three times higher than the rate of depression in the general population, Insider's Hilary Brueck and Lloyd Lee reported.

"After what he's been through in the past year, there's probably no one who wanted to talk about his own health less than John," Gisele Fetterman wrote on Twitter. "I'm so proud of him for asking for help and getting the care he needs."

Gisele Fetterman also wrote in a Twitter thread that when media trucks surrounded their home after the news of John Fetterman's hospitalization broke, she took her children to Canada to escape further scrutiny.

"We did some scary things but we did them together," she wrote. "We ziplined over Niagara Falls and August got stuck. We talked about flexibility and the need to always have an open heart and an open mind. We also talked about how joy and fun can and must still exist, even when someone we love is in pain. And tomorrow? Who knows. Will try all over again."

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