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- Narcissists struggle with having positive feelings about someone while they are mad at them.
- For many people, the best thing to do is to leave a narcissist and cut them out of their life.
- If this isn't possible there are some tactics you can use to stop the argument escalating.
When a narcissist flies into a rage, it can be terrifying.
Narcissists tend to be incapable of something called "object constancy," which means they struggle to have positive feelings at the same time as negative ones.