I make $80,000 in San Francisco but probably can't afford to live alone. The city's acceptance of gay people is one reason I won't be moving.

• A San Franciscan making $80,000 said he doesn't think he could afford to live alone in the city.
• He said he pays $1,200 a month to share a four-bedroom house with three roommates.
• While the cost of living is high, he feels safe and accepted and plans to stay in San Francisco.

This as-told-to essay is based on a transcribed conversation with a building manager. He spoke on the condition of anonymity for fear of being reprimanded at his job, as he's not authorized to talk to journalists. Insider has verified his salary, address, and employment. The following has been edited for length and clarity.