Flight attendant Natalie Rader
Flight attendant Natalie Rader says it's gross to wear just your socks to the bathroom.
  • Natalie Rader, a former Delta flight attendant, shares her unwritten rules of flying.
  • She says be mindful of smells on the plane — don't paint your toenails, for example.
  • Wear shoes in the bathroom — sometimes people miss and they pee on the floor.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Natalie Rader, a flight attendant. It has been edited for length and clarity. 

As a flight attendant who used to work for Delta and now works in private aviation, there are some unwritten rules I wish passengers knew. 

When getting on a plane, it's important to consider the other passengers and crew members on board. Flying can be stressful, but if you can treat others with kindness and respect, you'll have a much better flight.