Wendy Wang smiling wide and posing outdoors with a sun hat and her arms stretched to the sky.
  • Wendy Wang moved to Silicon Valley in 2020 and said the experience was like a roller coaster.
  • She said it was a steep learning curve for her and her spouse and felt like a never-ending race.
  • Wang returned to Pennsylvania two years later because of the intense isolating lifestyle.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Wendy Wang, a small business owner in Warminster, Pennsylvania. It's been edited for length and clarity.

People think of Silicon Valley as the tech dreamland. When I moved there on a work assignment, I discovered it in a different light.