Illustration of a woman sitting alone at a table.
When Kate Bettes went freelance, she wasn't prepare for how lonely she'd be.
  • Writer Kate Bettes relocated to Berlin but struggled with loneliness and productivity.
  • She combats isolation by attending workshops, café work, and socializing with new connections.
  • Balancing work with an active social life has improved her productivity and mental well-being.

Everyone told me working and living in Europe was a dream come true. But no one said how lonely it could be.

As a dedicated extrovert, I've always loved the energy of others. In Sydney, my hometown, I've worked in large, close-knit offices. Keeping up with my sprawling friendship group could sometimes be a welcome game of Jenga. I lived with my partner, and my family was close by.