Asia's governments think people not having sex or dating may be tanking their birth rates. That's not the full picture.

• Declining birth rates are a huge problem for Asian countries like Japan and South Korea.
• Some cities are implementing radical measures, like funding a dating app to raise fertility rates.
• Experts that BI spoke to say countries should rethink their approach toward the demographic crisis.

Vanessa Lee, 28, knows what kind of parent she wants to be if she ever has kids.

"I want to be very hands-on. I want to be able to give my child whatever they want," said Lee, who got married last year.