A millennial couple who make $250,000 say they can't find a home in their budget: 'We refuse to become house-poor'

• A millennial couple who each make six figures say they're struggling to afford a home in Portland.
• They don't want their monthly mortgage payment to exceed 30% of their take-home income.
• They said they've been saving less for retirement and cutting back on childcare costs.

Laura Graves and her husband Samuel never thought they'd be raising their two children in an apartment, but they said the housing market has left them with little choice.