a woman stitched together with teens on their phones
Jayne Withers says Gen Zers are usually shocked when she asks them to put their phones away.
  • Jayne Withers teaches classes in Florida about dining etiquette to both children and adults.
  • She's seen Gen Zers struggle with holding two-way conversations and putting their phones down.
  • Her advice is to practice consideration, even if you cannot tip fairly, and be teachable.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Jayne Withers, an etiquette-dining consultant from the UK who hosts classes in Florida. It has been edited for length and clarity.