I'm a public-speaking expert. Here's how to give a memorable toast at your company and family holiday parties.

• I'm a public-speaking expert, and I've been helping people give toasts for decades.
• The first rule is that you need to follow a structure, including an introduction and an anecdote.
• Most importantly, you need to lead with passion and emotion to move your audience.

Giving a toast is one of the best ways to warm up the holidays and every gathering you're a part of. The combination of alcohol, family, and poignant words makes everyone feel a bit cozier.

But how do you make a successful toast? How do you make a toast that touches people — and doesn't cause massive, painful embarrassment?