These $70 satin Adidas pants are the latest status symbol in mom groups. They're totally worth it.

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Woman posing with satin adidas pants
The author got the last XS pair she found online.

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I fought to keep my dad at home after he developed dementia. I wish I'd moved him to long-term care sooner.

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Kelly Burch and her father

Kelly Burch

I wanted to be a 'chill mom.' My son needed something different.

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Child walking on path
The author wanted to be a chill mom.

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I prioritized my relationship over my classes in college. I graduated with no job and no friends, and I regret it all.

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Michelle Cavitolo standing next to an open window
The author prioritized her relationship over her college studies.

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I've lived in LA, Philadelphia, and Seattle. In every city, my closest friendships have been with women my mom's age.

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Woman smiling in chair with baby next to window with ocean views
Although I'm in my 30s, most of my closest friends are over 50. They've helped me build community and navigate different life stages.

Cheyenne Elwell

I spent 20 years and nearly $100,000 paying off my student loans. I'm done just in time for my youngest to start college.

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The author and her son at his college graduation.
The author said that she started making overpayments on her student loans once her oldest child graduated from college in 2022.

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My kids don't need another coach yelling from the bleachers. I'm choosing to focus on their love of the game instead.

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The author is sitting in the bleachers at a youth sports event.
The author said she wants her kids to truly enjoy the sports they play and is trying to put less focus on winning or losing.

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I left my family to see No Doubt at The Sphere. It reminded me about who I was before I had kids.

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Woman at the sphere
The author went to The Sphere to see No Doubt.

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As a landlord, I haven't raised my tenant's rent in 9 years. Community is more valuable than money.

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An exterior shot of the author's brick home.
My wife and I bought our first house in Maine almost a decade ago.

Johanna Sorrell

For years, I swore I'd never leave Los Angeles. Moving to Oregon made me realize I never want to go back.

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Woman holding dog staring at sunset in LA
Leaving Los Angeles and moving to Oregon helped me get a new perspective on my life.

Chelsea Frank

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