We're empty nesters now, but we're not downsizing. There are too many memories in this house.

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My husband and I unexpectedly moved in with my parents as newlyweds. It became one of the best seasons of our lives.

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My husband and I were newlyweds when we moved in with my parents. It was a great experience.

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I quit my job to travel the world. About 18 months later, I realized living abroad isn't all it's cracked up to be.

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I quit my job to travel full time.

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I bought a 40-foot boat for $1. It's been a game changer.

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Lara Manetta on her 40-foot boat.

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We didn't invite any kids to our 5-year-old's birthday. It was the best decision we ever made.

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The author's family (not pictured) decided to spend a day at the beach instead of throwing a big birthday party for their 5-year-old.

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My husband and I took our kids and parents on a bucket list trip. It was so worth it.

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I took myself to the movies alone. I ended up falling in love.

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As my 4 children graduate from high school and college, I'm hit with a mix of emotions — both joy and grief

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The author (not pictured) is both joyful and sad to watch her kids graduate.

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Getting sober while my kids are teenagers is the best parenting decision I've made. I get to be fully present for them.

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We thought we'd planned for a successful early retirement — but we're picking up side hustles just a few years in

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We invested in savings plans and paid off most of our debts before retiring at 55 — but we've still run into issues.

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