Cassindy Chao standing at the airport.
Cassindy Chao (pictured above) says she chose family over money and she's richer because of it.
  • Cassindy Chao, 55, is a former finance executive turned matchmaker.
  • After six years at Goldman Sachs, Chao decided to quit her job to take care of her ill mother.
  • She said the decision allowed her to spend time with family, marry, and have children.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Cassindy Chao, a 55-year-old matchmaker from Oakland, California, about quitting her dream job as a finance executive. It's been edited for length and clarity.

I'm a 55-year-old matchmaker who used to live the "Crazy Rich Asians" lifestyle, working in finance.