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  • My husband and I have been married for over three decades.
  • We have argued over many things, but rarely over finances. 
  • We mostly keep our money separate, aside from some investment funds and one joint account.

In 33 years of marriage, my husband and I have argued over politics, housework, and whose turn it is to let the dog out. But we've rarely fought about money. I attribute this to the unexpected advice my mom gave me when I got married: In addition to any joint accounts, always keep a separate credit card and bank account.