a couple takes a selfie on a ski slope
Mykhaylo Fridlyand and his girlfriend, Kristina, in Colorado.
  • Mykhaylo Fridlyand was on vacation when he heard Russia invaded Ukraine, his home country, in 2022.
  • He and his girlfriend decided not to return and spent some time in Greece before moving to the US.
  • Now they own a small business in Colorado and have built a life for themselves. They plan to stay.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Mykhaylo Fridlyand, 43, who left Ukraine to move to Colorado. The following has been edited for length and clarity.