illustration of a woman yelling at another woman
The author says her boss made her question everything she did at work.
  • In my first job out of college, I had a boss who made me question my value.
  • Since then, I've been filled with self-doubt in the workplace.
  • But the experience has taught me that bosses are just people and that some aren't good leaders.

"You really should get a different kind of bag," my boss said, eyeing the plain black one next to me. "Adults don't wear backpacks to work."

I was taken aback. I became painfully conscious of my attire. Suddenly I felt like a little kid dressing up in her mom's clothes, mimicking adulthood.