As my 4 children graduate from high school and college, I'm hit with a mix of emotions — both joy and grief

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The author (not pictured) is both joyful and sad to watch her kids graduate.

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I thought my life would change when I moved to Ireland. Unfortunately, I never felt I belonged, and I moved home a year later.

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The author dreamed of moving to Ireland for years. While she enjoyed studying there, it wasn't a place she wanted to stay.

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After I got my Ph.D., I realized I didn't want to work in that field. I was in financial ruin until I found the right job for me.

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I'm a 40-year-old mom of 3 working toward my doctorate. It's not easy to juggle it all, but I'm doing this for me.

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The author (not pictured) went back to school in her 30s and is now pursuing a doctorate.

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Trump weighs taking $3 billion in frozen Harvard grants and giving the money to trade schools instead

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The Baker Library at Harvard University, where President Trump's war of words and funding continued on Memorial Day.

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I'm mentally preparing for my college freshman to move back home this summer. This phase of parenting is harder than I thought.

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I moved in with my 81-year-old grandmother during college. It was exactly what I needed.

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The author (right) and her grandmother.

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I dropped out of Oxford because my workload was too much, and I had no time to enjoy college. It was the best decision.

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The author dropped out of Oxford University.

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I supported my son when he changed his college major from law to philosophy. His grandparents warned it was a huge mistake.

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The author's son (not pictured) decided to study philosophy.

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I was a low-income student, so college never seemed feasible. That changed when I took a college class as a high schooler.

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The author (not pictured) attended a college class as a high schooler.

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