My fiancé and I are planning our wedding, but he's unemployed, and we're in debt. We've had to get creative.

• Last October, my fiancé was laid off and he has been unemployed ever since, so we are now in debt.
• We decided to keep planning our wedding, so I've used my tax refund to pay for deposits. 
• We are eloping in the mountains and trying to remind ourselves it isn't about the wedding. 

When my fiancé, Collin, was unexpectedly laid off last October, he told me it would likely delay his marriage proposal. We had already picked out a ring, and he had bought the center diamond, but he was hoping to save a little more money before buying the ring itself.