Liv Arnold and her husband standing in front of a movie ad
Liv Arnold, left, met her husband at work.
  • Liv Arnold met her now-husband at work after they bonded over how much they hated their job.
  • Even though they were dating other people, they started hanging out a lot after work. 
  • Once they broke up with their partners, Liv started dating her now-husband.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Liv Arnold, a 29-year-old who met her husband at work. The following has been edited for length and clarity.

Tim and I met 12 years ago when we were both working for one of Australia's "big four" banks. We were on the same team and sat next to each other. We bonded over the fact that we both really, really hated our job. We fantasized about quitting together.