Nicola Lindgren, her husband and their two kids.
"Having my husband take a good chunk of parental leave made me feel like we got to walk a mile in each other's shoes," Lindgren said.
  • Nicola Lindgren, a platform manager living in Sweden, has taken 21 months of paid parental leave.
  • In Sweden, new parents are given 480 total days of leave per child.
  • There's no stigma about parents taking time off to spend with their new children, Lindgren said.

Nicola Lindgren moved from New Zealand to Sweden for a job in her mid-20s.

She didn't plan on staying for longer than a year — until she met her future husband. They got married in 2015.