I left my career to be a stay-at-home mom. I didn't expect to lose my identity.

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  • I left my career at 38 to stay home with my child.
  • I struggled with guilt, identity loss, and my changing relationship with money.
  • Over time, I found purpose and connection through shared experiences.

At 38, I faced the toughest decision of my career: whether I wanted to continue working.

As a travel writer, I've stayed in tons of hotels with my kids — these 5 habits make all the difference

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A young boy reads a book while sitting in a chair in a hotel room.
The author often travels with her kids, and has found that asking for a corner room often gives them a little extra space.

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My dad planned to retire at 55. He died at 52, and it changed how I live.

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The author's dad died at 52.

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When I moved abroad, I left my parents behind in Mexico. I didn't expect our relationship to change so dramatically.

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Santiago Barraza Lopez and his parents
The author (middle) grew closer to his parents after moving abroad.

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When I became a dad, I experienced postpartum depression. My whole life changed, and I no longer understood who I was.

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The author struggled with postpartum depression.

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We're raising toddlers in a tiny home. We work just 3 days a week, and save over half our income.

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Jos van der Meulen and Fenna Wit in their tiny home in the Netherlands.

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We had to pull $20,000 from our retirement fund to stay afloat. It felt risky, but it was the only way.

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Sam Altman says parenting changed his view on iPads — and that he wants his son to 'play in the dirt'

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Sam Altman said he wasn't sure when his kid would talk to AI, but that he would "rather be on the late end of what's reasonable there."

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I dragged my son to all my work meetings as a single mom who couldn't afford childcare. I worried I ruined his childhood.

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The author (not pictured) brought her son to all work meetings.

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I take my kids and grandkids on vacation twice a year. The trips are well worth the $30,000 I spend.

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Francine Bookbinder with her husband and family on a recent vacation.
Francine Bookbinder with her husband and family on a recent vacation.

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