Composite image of the author as a child on the left wearing brightly colored overalls and on the right smiling and wearing a navy blue t-shirt.
The author has had a lazy eye her whole life.
  • I have a lazy eye, and kids used to call me names.
  • I've learned to put a positive spin on it, and I highlight features that I like.
  • But as an adult, I still feel insecure sometimes.

"Are you looking at me?" It was a question I was asked often as a kid. One eye would inevitably drift off and out. That was until I learned how to cover my lazy eye, a condition known as amblyopia, with bangs. However, I had a monstrous cowlick at the front of my head that stuck up. Bangs only drew more attention to it, and every hairdresser advised against such a hairstyle.