Woman and man wearing sweaters, standing on beach. They are looking at each other and smiling.
Kelly Magyarics (not pictured) and her ex-husband are divorced, but still close friends.
  • My ex-husband and I had been together for 27 years when we decided to divorce.
  • We remain close, and some people understand our friendly split — but others don't.
  • Just because we remain close friends in our divorce doesn't mean we should have stayed married.

The saying is ubiquitous on wedding invitations, picture frames, and heart-shaped lockets: "Today, I marry my best friend." And I did marry mine, a wonderful man who became a close friend before anything else.