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The author, not pictured, struggled to make friends.
  • When I moved to a new town with my family, I struggled to make friends.
  • Most people my age were either busy or didn't want to welcome new people into their lives.
  • I joined a gym and met new people; I even started talking to strangers at my local dog park.

A few years back, I uprooted my family and moved to a town where I knew virtually no one. I had plenty of family and friends in my old city but knew no one in my new area. I had to meet new people — or learn to love being alone, buy a cabin out in the woods, and knit sweaters for myself.