selfie of jamie valentino and his mother
The author, left, has a young mom, right.
  • My mother had my brothers and me at 22, so she sacrificed most of her youth for us.
  • I took that for granted when growing up, and I even pushed her away in my 20s.
  • Now, in my 30s, I'm seeing a new side of my mother and forging a new friendship with her.

My mom gave birth to me and my three brothers at 22. She spent her early 20s raising quadruplet sons.