After my divorce, I took back my old last name. I feel like I took back my identity.

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The author, not pictured, changed her last name after her divorce.

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At 65 I feel better than ever. I stopped weighing myself, eat healthier, and do exercises that feel good.

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Alison Weihe hasn't weighed herself in seven years and feels better at 65 than ever before.

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I lost my apartment in a fire. I learned that community is what makes a home.

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A man helps a tenant with carrying her plants.

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I didn't take my husband's last name, and people are surprisingly judgmental. They ask what he thinks about it.

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Patricia Garrison didn't take her husband's last name when she got married.

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My group of close friends was made up of 2 couples and myself. When one couple split, I grieved too.

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A woman comforts her friend with an embrace.

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I grew up in a cluttered house. Now, I feel satisfaction from donating things I don't use.

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The author (not pictured) doesn't like to keep clutter around her house.

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I've been eating dairy-free for 15 years. I didn't expect it to affect my social life.

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Stephanie Claytor has found dairy-free alternatives to foods like ice cream.

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My husband and I keep our finances separate and believe it's one of the reasons our marriage has stayed strong over the years

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Jen Glantz and her husband keep their finances separate.

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When the wage gap between me and my husband grew, I quit my job to work part-time. I realized my non-monetary contributions have value, too.

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Amanda Garland started to feel insecure about what she was bringing to her marriage when her husband accepted a job with a significant pay increase.

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I had to rent my house for extra income, and it forced me to declutter. I'm happier because of it.

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The author was able to declutter her home with the help of a professional photographer.

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