I've been married for three years and still haven't changed my last name. The longer I wait, the less I want to.

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an unhappy couple on the couch
The author, not pictured, doesn't want to take her husband's last name.

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I use the term 'partner' when speaking about my boyfriend. I didn't expect it to be a controversial label.

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A couple embraces as they look through the window of their apartment

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After my divorce, my college boyfriend reached out. We fell in love again, and I'm about to marry him.

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Isobella Jade and her college boyfriend next to them in present day
The author is marrying her college boyfriend decades later.

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I helped Tom Cruise and other celebrities divorce, but I've been happily married for 38 years. I've learned that dates — and postnups — can be key to marital bliss.

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When my friend canceled our 40th birthday trip to Paris last minute, I was frustrated. But it led me to meet my French husband.

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Dufflyn Lammers walking the streets of Paris with a bag of flowers
The author met her husband on a solo trip to Paris.

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I couldn't afford to move out when my boyfriend and I broke up. We're still roommates a year later because it makes works for us.

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The author, not pictured, still lives with her ex-boyfriend.

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I dated a man 15 years older, and everyone criticized me. Some said I was a gold digger and had daddy issues, but I loved him.

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A couple enjoying an early-morning coffee together.

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I'm a former divorce attorney. Here are 5 subtle red flags I learned to look out for in relationships.

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The author (not pictured) shares the red flags she saw in relationships as a divorce lawyer.

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My partner is monogamous, but I'm not. Here's how we make our relationship work.

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Fernanda Fabian and her partner.
I'm non-mongamous and my partner is monogamous.

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I dated a man 20 years older than me. He helped me jump-start my career and open up emotionally.

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The author, not pictured, was in an age-gap relationship.

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