A colorful child's birthday party with a mom cheering up a crying daughter
  • Child-focused parenting is when parents center activities and schedules around kids.
  • Like gentle parenting, it can lead to burnout and worse-behaved kids.
  • Taking kids out of child-centric activities builds their resilience and happiness.

When Michaeleen Doucleff became a parent, she read books on how to ensure her child's happiness. She wanted to be a good mom, to not deprive her daughter of something important.