My siblings and I live all over the world, but we connect every week on a video call. Our parents taught us the value of family.

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The author and her siblings connect weekly.

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I stopped spending $2,000 a year at the nail salon. A $10 press-on find helps me still feel put together.

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I'm a professional declutterer. Even I struggle to let go of books.

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We gave my grandma an iPhone when she was 80. I learned a lot about her from what she started watching on YouTube.

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The author's grandmother discovered YouTube.

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I took a break from being the 'planner friend.' Stepping back helped me learn which friendships I should prioritize.

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I started letting my son bike with his friends when he was 8. It gives me anxiety, but I see the value in having independence.

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The author's kids are part of a neighborhood "bike gang."

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I love having my 20-year-old daughter visit home from college. I also love it when she leaves, and I have my independence again.

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The author loves when his college-aged daughter visits.

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My husband and I just celebrated our 30th anniversary. Here's what I've learned about love, life, and parenting.

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The author (right) celebrated her 30th wedding anniversary.

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I let my kids swear at home. It has improved our communication, and they are more open with me.

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The author doesn't police her kids' swearing.

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I ran a successful brick-and-mortar business for decades. I shut it down in my 50s to reinvent myself and my career.

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The author ran a photography studio.

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