I'm 41 and single by choice. I've had to create a wider support network than most, but I also have deeper friendships.

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The author, who is single by choice, said that being on her own has encouraged her to turn to a wider network for support and companionship, leading to deeper friendships.

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I never thought my family would need SNAP benefits. Then, my husband was laid off just after I had our third kid.

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The author (not pictured) was grateful for SNAP benefits after her husband was laid off in 2023.

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I'm in my 40s and on my third career change. I got rejected from 83 jobs last month but I'm not losing hope.

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My ex and I split 10 years ago. He does his co-parenting at my house.

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The author's ex comes to her house every other weekend to parent their children.

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I gave birth to triplets when I was 41 and my husband was 49. There are benefits and drawbacks to being a parent of 3 at an older age.

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The author and her husband were both in their 40s when they found out that she was pregnant with triplets.

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We couldn't afford after school childcare in New York City. My husband and I live on opposite coasts to make it work.

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The author and her husband live in opposite coasts.

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My wife's job has us moving to a new state every few months. It's really tough, but I've found ways to make it work.

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We move every few months for my wife's job, and it's not always easy.

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I just turned 40 and started reflecting on my career. Here are 5 things I wish I knew when I was starting out.

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The author has some career advice for her younger self.

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My family of 3 is living with my father-in-law while renovating our bathroom. We get free childcare and laundry service.

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The author's son has been enjoying playing with his grandfather and great-grandparents while living with them.

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I struggled for years about whether I wanted to become a mother. I'm glad I came around.

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The author, shown with her toddler, said it took years for her to decide if motherhood was right for her.

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