We live 16 hours from my in-laws. My kids have close relationships with their grandparents, despite rarely seeing them.

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The author's kids (not pictured) don't see their grandparents regularly, but they FaceTime often.

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I asked my mom to babysit my 2 kids while my husband and I went away. She'd never watched them before, but it was good for everyone.

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The author's mother (not pictured) watched her kids while she and her husband went on a trip to Seattle.

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Our neighbors didn't have family, so they became like grandparents to my kids. I still regret that I couldn't help them more than I did.

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We go to weekly dinners at Grandma's house. It's a tradition we prioritize, and it keeps me grounded.

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The author and her family have weekly dinners at her parents' house.

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My kids' grandparents live far away. We make sure to FaceTime at least once a week and see them 4 to 5 times a year.

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The author lives far from family, but has found ways to help his kids stay in touch with their grandparents.

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Moving back to my hometown means my kids get more time with their cousins and grandparents, and my husband and I get more date nights

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The author is glad she and her family moved home so her sons (one of them pictured here on the right) can spend more time with their second cousins.

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My family of 3 is living with my father-in-law while renovating our bathroom. We get free childcare and laundry service.

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The author's son in a play car blowing bubbles.
The author's son has been enjoying playing with his grandfather and great-grandparents while living with them.

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I thought being a grandma would be easy. I've learned to respect boundaries and follow rules that aren't mine.

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The author cannot share photos of her grandkids on social media.

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My grandma looked fabulous well into her 80s. She taught me how important it is to be a little selfish.

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I remember my grandmother (not pictured) as always looking polished and taking good care of herself.

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My 81-year-old mom lives with my tween and me. It's made my son more empathetic.

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Julie Kelley recently went on vacation with her mom Judy and her 11-year-old son.

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