I spent a week in a hospital in Ecuador when my lung collapsed. It confirmed that moving here was the right decision.

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Sinead Mulhern started having trouble breathing one day while walking near an Andean town.

Sinead Mulhern

I started using dating apps in my 50s and quickly grew frustrated. Coming up with the 'burned haystack' dating method helped.

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Jennie Young created the Burned Haystack Dating Method.

Jennie Young

At 26, I set off on a yearlong adventure to South America. It's been 6 years, and I have no plans to leave.

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Sinead Mulhern is happier after relocating to Cuenca, Ecuador.

Sinead Mulhern

My husband and I take turns going on solo international trips without our kids. The arrangement works for us both.

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Author Melissa Noble smiling at Tiger's Nest Monastery, Bhutan, a series of mountains with a building on the side
Traveling without my family has helped me be a better parent.

Melissa Noble

I traveled to Bali with my husband and young kids to decompress. 2 years later, we're still here.

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Alison Emerick loves walking down Bali streets and smelling incense burning.

Alison Emerick

We traded our condo in a walkable city for a big house in the suburbs after we retired. It's been great for us and our grandkids.

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We loved living close to Washington, DC.

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I'm giving dating apps another try as a single mom. Men interested in open relationships are a green flag.

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Nicola Prentis finds that men seeking open relationships are more honest about what they want.

Nicola Prentis

My 3 kids spend little time with their grandpa. So, we flew across the country for a surprise visit.

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Grandpa in cowboy hat with three boys and a chicken.
Wendy Altschuler traveled with her three sons to Montana to surprise Grandpaw.

Wendy Altschuler

I thought I wanted my life to be like 'Gilmore Girls'— until I started rewatching the series with my daughters

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I loved "Gilmore Girls" as a teen, but the show hasn't aged well.

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We thought Massachusetts was the perfect place to build a life. Boston let us down, but we found peace elsewhere in the state.

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Autumn on Boston's Jamaica Pond

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