I went to an adult sleepaway camp in my 40s. Surrounded by women in their 60s and 70s, I found role models for aging.

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The writer in the woods at summer camp.
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Julie Chang Murphy

I'm a single mom and thought my kid-free trip to Milan was selfish. It turned out to be a great parenting decision.

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Barbara Pazur took a three-day trip to Milan with her friend.
A three-day trip to Milan helped Barbara Pazur's daughter reconnect with her father.

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Five years of living in a tiny home taught me that the biggest sacrifices had nothing to do with space or stuff

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Author Amber McDaniel sitting at small dining table
Tiny living has changed my perspective on socializing and reshaped how I connect with others.

Amber McDaniel

I moved to Turkey to be with my long-distance boyfriend. He broke up with me 2 months later, but I love my new home.

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Kaitlyn stands in front of a Turkish flag by a river.
I moved to Turkey for love and decided to stay after our break up.

Kaitlyn McInnis

I couldn't afford to take a gap year in college. So at 53, I retired early and did exactly that.

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Kelly Benthall and her husband in Seville, Spain.
Benthall and her husband retired early and spent the first year traveling around the world.

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My wife's job has us moving to a new state every few months. It's really tough, but I've found ways to make it work.

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Author Luke Macy and wife Emma smiling in front of water,
We move every few months for my wife's job, and it's not always easy.

Luke Macy

I moved from New York City to a small Italian town with fewer than 5,000 people. My life looks so different.

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Caroline and her husband pose for a selfie at sunset.
I moved from New York City to small town in Italy.

Caroline Chirichella

My grandma looked fabulous well into her 80s. She taught me how important it is to be a little selfish.

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Woman with gray hair, flowy dress facing away from camera in courtyard
I remember my grandmother (not pictured) as always looking polished and taking good care of herself.

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I love traveling with friends and family, but I need alone time on vacation. I created a rule that keeps everyone happy.

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The author posing at Lonja de la Seda.
I created the "50/50 Rule" to help me get alone time when I'm on vacation with others.

Nicole Benedettini

I went to a destination wedding with no plus-one. It was one of the best trips I've ever taken.

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A wide shot of a beach wedding ceremony space.
I went to a friend's wedding in a different country without a plus one, and I still had fun.

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