When my friend canceled our 40th birthday trip to Paris last minute, I was frustrated. But it led me to meet my French husband.

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Dufflyn Lammers walking the streets of Paris with a bag of flowers
The author met her husband on a solo trip to Paris.

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I couldn't afford to move out when my boyfriend and I broke up. We're still roommates a year later because it makes works for us.

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The author, not pictured, still lives with her ex-boyfriend.

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I dated a man 15 years older, and everyone criticized me. Some said I was a gold digger and had daddy issues, but I loved him.

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A couple enjoying an early-morning coffee together.

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I'm a former divorce attorney. Here are 5 subtle red flags I learned to look out for in relationships.

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The author (not pictured) shares the red flags she saw in relationships as a divorce lawyer.

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My partner is monogamous, but I'm not. Here's how we make our relationship work.

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Fernanda Fabian and her partner.
I'm non-mongamous and my partner is monogamous.

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I dated a man 20 years older than me. He helped me jump-start my career and open up emotionally.

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The author, not pictured, was in an age-gap relationship.

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My wife and I knew from our first date that we didn't want kids. We've been together for 17 years and lost friends because of our choice.

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Walters and his wife have been together for 17 years

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I cheated on my girlfriend. It's the worst thing I've ever done, but I had to lose her to find myself.

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The author, not pictured, cheated on his girlfriend.

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I'm a Hindu and my wife is Christian, so we have different beliefs and traditions. Somehow, our marriage still works.

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Kaajal Nanda and her wife on their wedding day
The augthor, left, is a Hindu, and her wife is a Christian.

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I live on a boat with my husband, and weather conditions often threaten our lives. Trusting each other keeps us safe.

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Wendy Hawkes and her husband hugging in front of their boat
The author, right, lives on a boat with her husband.

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