I'm happy that my younger sister is married, owns a home, and has a second child on the way — but I'm also jealous. I'm learning to be OK with that.

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The author and her sister.
The author (left), is happy for the life that her younger sister has built, but is sometimes envious that her own path looks different.

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My twins have done everything together since birth. Now that they're older, I'm helping them recognize their individuality.

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The author's twin sons.
The author said her twins have been nearly inseparable since birth, so she is encouraging their individuality as they age.

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Growing up, I struggled to understand my younger sister's carefree attitude. Now, I can admit she was onto something.

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The author, right, and her sister posing. The author is wearing college graduation regalia.
My younger sister is helping me be more present and calm as an adult.

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As a firstborn, I know what it's like to be the oldest sibling. I empathize with how my daughter feels about the responsibility.

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The author poses with her daughter in a park.
As a firstborn child, the author knows firsthand the pressure that her oldest daughter is experiencing.

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