My partner is 17 years older than me. I've started doing 'grief math' when I think about our future.

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The author and her partner.
The author and her partner met when she was n29 and he was 46. Now that he's 57, she's timing more about how their future will look.

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Chelsea Handler says her dating life changed after 40: 'I'm too hot to be dating 65-year-olds'

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Chelsea Handler.
Chelsea Handler.

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My kids were born 17 years apart. My daughter and I grew up together, my son is getting a different version of me.

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The author said that motherhood feels different the second time around.

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I'm 40, and one of my best friends is 97. He's changed my definition of success and gives me the best advice.

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Melissa Noble and Bryan Hipwell celebrating his 97th birthday.
The author and her friend Bryan have a 57-year age gap.

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My 3 kids are all 5 years apart. The age gap brings benefits and challenges.

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The author's kids are all five years apart.

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My husband is 10 years older than me. The age gap was noticeable when we first started parenting, but now I see it as an asset.

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My husband already had one child when we met, and we've added three more to our family. While our age difference was noticeable at first, I now see it as an asset.

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I've been in an arranged marriage for 18 years. Our relationship works because we see the world differently.

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A couple stands on a bridge overlooking a city.
In the past 18 years I've seen how our differences have made us a stronger couple.

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My parents had my youngest sister when I was 17. Helping care for her made me feel older than my peers.

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A girl sits with a baby in a high chair at the kitchen table studying for a university class.
I was 17 when my youngest sister (not pictured) was born. At times, I felt more like her third parent than a sibling.

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I dated a man 15 years older, and everyone criticized me. Some said I was a gold digger and had daddy issues, but I loved him.

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A couple enjoying an early-morning coffee together.

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I dated a man 20 years older than me. He helped me jump-start my career and open up emotionally.

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The author, not pictured, was in an age-gap relationship.

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