I still book doctor appointments and send groceries to my 20-something sons, but I'm trying to redefine my relationship with them

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I've lived and worked in 5 countries. After becoming an empty nester, I built my dream retirement in a new city.

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Jessica Khine lives in Penang, Malaysia as an empty nester.

Jessica Khine.

Two Gen X empty-nest couples are 'rightsizing' in a development focused on community

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Stephanie Falk (left) and Judy Cooperman.
Stephanie Falk (left) and Judy Cooperman.

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We were empty nesters for 6 months. Then our kids started moving back in with us.

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Randy Charach's family
Three of Randy Charach's daughters came back home after leaving him and his wife as empty nesters.

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My son and his family moved in with us. We went from empty nesters to a family of 7.

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One of the author's sons moved in with his family.

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People always talk about becoming an empty nester, but it's also strange to leave the nest empty

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When the author moved out for university, she realized it her parents' lives would change, too.

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My son moved home because of the high cost of living and a low-paying, entry-level job. I never got to be an empty nester.

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The author's son moved home after college.

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I struggled with loneliness when I became an empty nester. I found new hobbies, got a dog, and started traveling.

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Justine Martin struggled with loneliness when she became an empty nester.

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My biggest parenting mistake was making my kids the center of my world. Women need an identity beyond 'mom.'

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The author, not pictured, devoted her life to her kids.

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I worried my husband and I wouldn't last once we became empty-nesters — but we've since discovered how to keep our 24-year marriage strong

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My husband and I try to go on two cruises together a year.

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