I went from no kids to twins. I'm still learning how to be a dad.

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I was scared to let my kids bike alone or go to sleepovers. Giving my 10-year-old more independence has helped me be more confident, too.

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The author and her husband have three kids.

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My husband and I paid for our own college degrees. We told our 3 kids they have to do the same.

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The author (left) and her husband told their kids they had to pay for college themselves.

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My 15-year-old daughter wants a summer job. I want her to enjoy being a kid.

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The author says her daughter (not shown) is eager to grow up, but she wants her to have one more carefree summer.

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I'm raising my child to be independent. I pay her $2.70 a week for chores, and she has her own debit card.

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The author started paying her daughter for chores when she was 5.

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I underestimated the mental and emotional labor of being a parent. This job doesn't have any downtime.

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The author (not pictured) says she thought motherhood would be a 'second shift.'

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I created a screen-free streaming music device. I aimed it at runners, but it took off with kids instead.

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Anthon Mendelson created the Mighty when his iPhone broke.

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Moving close to my mom has helped with parenting and caregiving. My older kids can ride their bikes to her place whenever someone needs something.

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The author said that living close to her mom has made both parenting and helping her mom easier.

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My Spirit Airlines flight was canceled at 2 a.m. I paid $800 extra to get my mom and me home.

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Jessica Stanton flew to Boston with Spirit Airlines and was left stranded.

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I sold my childhood home in Miami to buy an apartment in Sicily. We paid under $600,000 and did $98,000 in renovations.

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Kat Moore and her husband bought an apartment in Sicily.

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