My wife and I knew from our first date that we didn't want kids. We've been together for 17 years and lost friends because of our choice.

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Walters and his wife have been together for 17 years

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I went back to work 4 weeks after giving birth. I had dizzy spells from how exhausted I was.

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The author (not pictured) had to return quickly to work after giving birth.

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My family moved to Florida in 2016 and have been through 6 major hurricanes. We're staying here anyway.

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The author says she and her family are not leaving Florida any time soon.

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My wife is the breadwinner, and I'm a stay-at-home dad. I hate when people say I'm less manly because of it.

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The author, not pictured, is a stay-at-home dad.

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I had to downsize before a move. I found a box of my kids' baby clothes and relived so many memories.

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Karen Siwak kept many of the clothes her kids wore when they were little.

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My biggest parenting mistake was making my kids the center of my world. Women need an identity beyond 'mom.'

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The author, not pictured, devoted her life to her kids.

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I'm a mom of 3 and my house was full of stuff my kids didn't use. Decluttering made space for new interests and memories.

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The author had a hard time letting go of things because she had memories of her children playing with them.

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My daughter hates her name because it's traditionally used for boys. I hope one day she learns to love how different it is.

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The author (not pictured) named her daughter Kyle and hopes she grows to love her name someday.

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I'm a single mom to a toddler and only book luxury resorts for us. It allows me to also enjoy our vacation.

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The author books luxury resorts to go to with her toddler instead of family-friendly resorts.

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I'm a mom of 6 and would have more kids if I could afford them. Our house is full of laughter and chaos, but I love it.

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