I never wanted kids. My partner has a son, and it's been unexpectedly great.

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Alexandra Saville (not pictured) never wanted kids but was surprised by how much she enjoyed having a relationship with her partner's son.

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I decided not to have a second child and have no regrets. The benefits are just too good.

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Nicole Findlay and her son wearing red and white jerseys and smiling at the camera on a sunny day.
Nicole Findlay's son is an only child.

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My dad is Black and my mom is white. I struggle to embrace my identity.

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The author says growing up, she didn't have a community to help her celebrate her biracial identity.

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I run a preschool and see how gentle parenting has made parents less engaged with their kids. It's time to ditch parenting scripts.

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Parent's talk amongst themselves in a playroom

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I do a lot of the invisible labor in my house. I'm teaching my kids to 'notice and do' so I don't have to ask for help.

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I'm a public school teacher trying to save money for grad school. I'm on my parents' phone plan and they pay for my tickets to see them.

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The author's parents help her by paying for plane tickets to visit them, but they also encourage her to be financially independent.

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I'm 23 and getting my master's degree. My parents can't help me financially, so I moved in with them to save money.

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The author decided to go to grad school after finishing her undergrad degree. To save money, she lives with her parents.

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I'm remarried but still have the instincts of a single mom. I always ensure I make enough money to support my son on my own.

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Ashley Archambault and her son smiling and sitting in a booth at a restaurant.
Ashley Archambault was a single mom for seven years before getting remarried.

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I'm a millennial who still depends on my parents to pay for my cellphone and streaming services. I don't feel guilty about it.

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I burned out trying to be an overachieving parent. I learned it's OK to ask for help.

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The author felt like she had to be an overachiever while parenting her first two kids but learned to ask for help the third time around.

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