I spent my early 20s renting in expensive US cities. Life isn't cheaper for me in the suburbs, but it's better and more fun.

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I've spent a lot of years living in some of the most expensive cities. A few months ago, I finally gave up and headed to the suburbs of Pennsylvania.

Amory Rose

As a teacher, I'm done feeling guilty for having summers off

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I usually pack my summers with home projects and errands. This year, I'm letting myself rest.

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I've been lying about my age since I was 24, and I don't see anything wrong with that

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Age is the only thing Nicola Prentis lies about when dating.

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I gave up my dream life in Japan to move to the Netherlands — now, I couldn't be happier

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As an American, I'm glad I was able to move to Europe.

Brie Schmidt

My first cruise was a 7-day disappointment. Even worse, it left me feeling sick long after touching dry land.

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I feel no need to book another cruise anytime soon.

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I'm a single mom running my own business. I deal with admin at the playground.

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Nicola Prentis is a single mom and often takes care of her company's admin at the playground.

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I ask men if they have a pension plan before I seriously date them. It's not because I care how much money they have.

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Nicola Prentis has secured her own finances and wants to date men who have done the same.

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We're having 2 weddings because many of our LGBTQ+ guests don't feel safe going to Florida

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My partner and I are planning to have a wedding in New York and one in Florida.

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We went on a trip to Europe 3 years ago and never left. Our kid's life is way better here than it was in the US.

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Author Lana Katsaros, her partner, and their son in Europe
My family has had a wonderful time exploring Europe.

Lana Katsaros

I got sober living in one of the UK's biggest party towns

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I gained incredible willpower in the past few years.

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