For years, I swore I'd never leave Los Angeles. Moving to Oregon made me realize I never want to go back.

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Leaving Los Angeles and moving to Oregon helped me get a new perspective on my life.

Chelsea Frank

I left my job and boyfriend for an opportunity in Los Angeles. Within 4 months, I moved back home.

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The writer wearing a red dress and sitting on a bridge in New York City, with skyscrapers in the background.
My short-lived stint in LA helped me feel more confident when I eventually moved to New York.

Kirsty McCormack

I was burned out postpartum. A trip taught me how to embrace community and changed how I parent.

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The author says a two-month trip to India made her realize she needed community.

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Most parents manage their kids' social lives. I expect my 8-year-old to do it himself.

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The author stopped planning playdates for her 8-year-old.

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My husband was unemployed for 10 months. He finally landed a job when he turned up at an office with a box of doughnuts.

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Camilla Richardson and her husband
The author's (right) husband (left) used a unique strategy to get a job.

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We moved from a small town to live with my parents in the city. I'm making sure to build our community here.

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the author and her husband in country Victoria.
The author is trying to incorporate things she loved about her life in country Victoria into her life on the Gold Coast.

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My daughter grew up hanging around bars. I'm glad she has such wonderful memories.

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The author's daughter reads while sitting with her mom at a bar.
The author said that bar workers usually made an extra effort to connect with her daughter, often giving her a sidecar of cherries for her Shirley Temple or asking her what books she was currently reading.

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My husband and I took our first solo vacation. It was romantic, but I missed my son.

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The author and her husband went on a solo trip and she missed her son.

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My daughter is a 'trinket kid.' Her collections are taking over our house.

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The author says she has a trinket kid.

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I always dreamed of buying a house, and now I can finally afford one. But I'm realizing my money is better spent elsewhere.

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The author can afford to buy a house, but he doesn't want to.

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