As a travel writer, I've stayed in tons of hotels with my kids — these 5 habits make all the difference

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A young boy reads a book while sitting in a chair in a hotel room.
The author often travels with her kids, and has found that asking for a corner room often gives them a little extra space.

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My dad planned to retire at 55. He died at 52, and it changed how I live.

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Woman posing for camera
The author's dad died at 52.

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When I moved abroad, I left my parents behind in Mexico. I didn't expect our relationship to change so dramatically.

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Santiago Barraza Lopez and his parents
The author (middle) grew closer to his parents after moving abroad.

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When I became a dad, I experienced postpartum depression. My whole life changed, and I no longer understood who I was.

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Zach Fox holding his newborn baby
The author struggled with postpartum depression.

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We had to pull $20,000 from our retirement fund to stay afloat. It felt risky, but it was the only way.

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Kids playing with sprinkler

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Moving off the grid in rural West Virginia felt isolating at first. With time, I built a strong community.

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The writer hiking in West Virginia with her dogs.
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Jordan Charbonneau

I dragged my son to all my work meetings as a single mom who couldn't afford childcare. I worried I ruined his childhood.

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a woman at her desk while also playing with her son
The author (not pictured) brought her son to all work meetings.

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I'm a college admissions expert, and my students are struggling with basic literacy skills. Their college apps are suffering.

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Diana Ha teaching a class with an essay on the screen
The author is a college admissions expert.

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I moved to a beach town in my mid-20s. Instead of paradise, I found the loneliest time in my life.

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Author Kasia Kovacs smiling in selfie in front of trees
Pinckney Island Wildlife Refuge

Kasia Kovacs

When we got married, my husband and I fell into traditional roles. Now, we're teaching our kids how to be more equal with their future partners.

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The author;s son helps to cook a meal for the family.
The author said she and her husband are working to make sure their kids know how to share the mental and physical load with their future partners.

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