My daughter hates her name because it's traditionally used for boys. I hope one day she learns to love how different it is.

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The author (not pictured) named her daughter Kyle and hopes she grows to love her name someday.

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I ghosted all the friends that left me feeling drained, and I'm not sorry. I now focus on quality time with real friends.

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The author ghosted all her friends that left her feeling drained.

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I cheated on my girlfriend. It's the worst thing I've ever done, but I had to lose her to find myself.

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The author, not pictured, cheated on his girlfriend.

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I'm a single mom to a toddler and only book luxury resorts for us. It allows me to also enjoy our vacation.

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The author books luxury resorts to go to with her toddler instead of family-friendly resorts.

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I'm a mom of 6 and would have more kids if I could afford them. Our house is full of laughter and chaos, but I love it.

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I'm a Hindu and my wife is Christian, so we have different beliefs and traditions. Somehow, our marriage still works.

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The augthor, left, is a Hindu, and her wife is a Christian.

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I stopped saving for my son's college tuition. I decided to save for my forever home instead.

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The author, left, has decided not to save for her son's college tuition.

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As a single mom, finances can be tight. Taking my son to Legoland was a good way to teach him about money.

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I'm 30, and my best friend is 75. She's shaped how I approach relationships.

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The author, second from right, has gone on double dates with her partner and her best friend Gill.

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I took my 2 kids to a family all-inclusive resort. They had a blast, and I did not have to do anything.

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The author, not pictured, says that having someone take care of her needs was what she needed.

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