4 types of emotionally immature parents, from reactive to critical

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There are 4 types of emotionally immature parents: reactive, highly critical, passive, and emotionally absent.

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They left their jobs in their 50s to reconnect with their kids. It helped them rethink their long-term career plans.

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Pablo Slough and Karen Gilchrist quit their tech jobs in mid-2024 to take a gap year to spend time with their sons.

Pablo Slough and Karen Gilchrist.

My extended family decided not to buy Christmas presents this year. Instead, we're all helping each other out with home projects.

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Rachel Reva and her sister building furniture
The author (left) is helping her sister out for Christmas.

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My dad died 3 years ago. I'm learning how to celebrate the holidays without him.

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The author remembers her father over the holidays by telling his stories and looking at blue Christmas lights with her son.

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I live in a small mobile home at 81. I have everything I need.

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Jane Post knitting in her cozy, tiny home.
Jane Post knitting in her cozy, tiny home.

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Relocating for a new job was never a big deal. Having kids changed things; we're not moving now, even for a big opportunity.

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The author and her husband decided to put down roots once they had children.

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We skipped our annual Christmas celebrations with extended family and went on vacation instead — just the 4 of us

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I'm fortunate to come from a close family that values large Christmas gatherings; however, our travel plans meant last year's festivities looked a little different.

Margie Pumpa

Instead of downsizing, I moved into a bigger home at 74. My grandkids love the extra space, and family visits are finally fun.

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Laurence Gerowitz and his wife Dottie Lipski.

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Every year, I drive across the country to live with my mother-in-law for a few months. It's become my favorite tradition.

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Author Mar Yvette smiling with mother in law
Being able to spend a few months with my mother-in-law every year has been a gift, especially since she lives quite far away from me and my husband.

Mar Yvette

My family and I are moving back to my hometown to be closer to my parents. We're giving it a year to see how it goes.

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The author wants to move back to her hometown to be closer to her parents.

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