I'm a 44-year-old mom of 4. I finally learned how to set clear boundaries, starting with dryer balls.

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The author said she realized her anger wasn't ajust bout dryer balls.

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When we got married, my husband and I fell into traditional roles. Now, we're teaching our kids how to be more equal with their future partners.

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The author;s son helps to cook a meal for the family.
The author said she and her husband are working to make sure their kids know how to share the mental and physical load with their future partners.

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I'm the youngest of 5, and became the default caregiver for my aging parents. I'm learning how not to lose myself.

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The author said that being financially stable made her the default caregiver for her aging parents.

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My husband and I divide parenting duties strategically. We share the load while relying on our strengths.

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The author and her husband pose outside in front of a tree.
The author said she and her husband divide parenting duties based on interest and expertise.

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