I tried to be a '90s butter mom.' I'm now a more present parent, but it also reminded me that social media is idealized.

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The author tried the "90s butter mom" parenting trend for a month.

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I'm a French mom raising my daughter in Florida. I wasn't prepared for how differently people parent here.

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The author is from France, and moved to the US 10 years ago.

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Gavin Rossdale says co-parenting with Gwen Stefani does not require doing things the same way

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Gavin Rossdale.

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I regret not practicing gentle parenting with my oldest kids. I'm making up for lost time now.

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The author (not pictured) said she mostly stuck to "old-school" parenting techniques as a new mother.

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My 3 kids all need very different parenting styles from me. Being fair doesn't mean being the same.

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The author said she learned that her three children each require unique parenting approaches to help them thrive.

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My parents are boomers and always encouraged me to feel my feelings. All my friends wanted to hang out at my house.

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The author's parents are boomers, and they gave her unconditional support.

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I'm taking a hands-off approach to my son's schooling. I don't want him to fail, but he needs to be independent.

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Ashley Archambault (not pictured) is taking a hands-off approach to her son's schooling this year.

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My daughter still couldn't tie her shoes at 9 years old. I'm to blame because I only teach her things when she's interested.

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The author has a unique parenting style.

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I had my first baby in Switzerland and the second after moving home to Chicago. Giving birth in the US left much to be desired.

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Chantal Panozzo had her first baby in Switzerland and the second after moving back to the US.

Chantal Panozzo

Growing up, my parents didn't discipline me. Now, I'm doing authoritative parenting — and it's working.

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Beth Rush and her siblings were not disciplined while growing up, and she decided to try an authoritative parenting style.

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