Bethenny Frankel said red flags become 'fire engine-red' during divorce. Here are her biggest ones to watch out for when you start dating.

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I got a divorce, but my ex-husband and I are still close. Some people don't understand how we can be such good friends.

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Kelly Magyarics (not pictured) and her ex-husband are divorced, but still close friends.

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I quit my dream job at Goldman Sachs to care for my mother. I felt bad for myself but realized the simple things are what truly matter.

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Cassindy Chao (pictured above) says she chose family over money and she's richer because of it.

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I quit my Ph.D. program to be a wife and mother at 23. It's not what I expected for my post-college life, but I'm happier.

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The author, left, wanted to be a mother and wife – not an academic.

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My coworker and I bonded over how much we hated our job. We were in relationships with other people but fell in love anyway.

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Liv Arnold, left, met her husband at work.

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When my husband and I started working together, I was nervous. But it has only helped our relationship.

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The author, right, and her husband work together.

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My partner and I are remodeling our house by ourselves while living in it. It hasn't been easy, but it's rewarding.

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The author, not pictured, and her partner are remodeling their house.

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Student-loan borrowers have delayed buying a home or car, having kids, and getting married because of their debt — even for those with balances smaller than $10,000

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A tech investor got brutally roasted after he shared the detailed Notion database he uses to manage his marriage. He says the haters don't get that he's just being organized.

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"My wife and I use Notion religiously to manage our day-to-day life. Here's a screenshot of our set-up," Ben Lang wrote on X, formerly Twitter, on April 6.

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My fiancé was laid off months ago, and he's in debt. I'm now overworking myself to make ends meet.

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The author, left, and her fiancé are struggling with money after he was laid off.

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