My sister gave up her career to care for our parents. It makes me feel guilty.

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The author, who, like her sister and mother, is not pictured, feels guilt about not being able to care for her parents.

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My family moved in with my mother-in-law to save money. She ended up being the best roommate I've ever had.

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From the very start of our relationship, my mother-in-law and I were very close. In many ways, living together brought us closer.

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People always talk about becoming an empty nester, but it's also strange to leave the nest empty

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The author with her parents.
When the author moved out for university, she realized it her parents' lives would change, too.

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I don't tell my kids I'll miss them when I travel without them. It's the truth.

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The author feels no guilt traveling without her kids.

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My job offers little chance for career growth, but I'm sticking with it. It gives me the flexibility I need as a parent.

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The author (not shown) has chosen to stay in a job with little chance for career growth.

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My son moved home because of the high cost of living and a low-paying, entry-level job. I never got to be an empty nester.

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The author's son moved home after college.

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My family moved from Vancouver to Toronto for a few months to live with my parents. There have been pros and cons.

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The author and her family at her parents' house.
The author and her husband left Vancouver for the summer to live with family in Toronto.

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I'm a morning show contributor, and my husband is a firefighter. My daughter's grandparents make our nontraditional careers work.

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The author says help from her daughter's grandparents makes both her career and her husband's career possible.

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Now that my kids are adults, I don't plan our family trips anymore. I'm struggling with just being a guest with no say.

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Our family lived in Japan for 3 years. We're back in the US now and I really miss these 3 things.

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The author only lived in Japan for 3 years with her family, but says that 15 years later there are still things that she misses.

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