My son died in a ski accident at age 9. He is still part of our holiday traditions.

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Boy playing with nutcrackers
The author's son died in 2019 in a ski accident. She's been navigating grief since.

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My son is too old for Elf on the Shelf pranks, but I do it every year anyway. I think I have more fun with it than he does.

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The author and her son making Christmas cookies
The author has been doing Elf on the Shelf pranks for her son for years.

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I research self-regulation for a living. As a parent, it can be hard to follow my own advice.

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The author poses while in a screened-in porch.
The author studies self-regulation for a living, but admits he can have a hard time following his own advice when parenting.

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My husband and I divide parenting duties strategically. We share the load while relying on our strengths.

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The author and her husband pose outside in front of a tree.
The author said she and her husband divide parenting duties based on interest and expertise.

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My family's holiday budget is smaller than I'd like. Here's how I'm making sure the season is still magical for us.

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The author with her son and husband.
The author is making sure the holiday season still feels magical for her family this year.

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I stopped expecting the holidays to be perfect. Four kids and a pilot's schedule taught me that Christmas morning can happen at midnight.

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Kids in the car on Christmas
The author's husband was a pilot, and his schedule made the holidays non-traditional.

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I make broccoli-cheese casserole every year for the holidays. It's made with only 4 ingredients and is always the first to disappear.

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Woman making broccoli casserole
The author's broccoli casserole is the first to be gone during the holidays.

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My 7-year-old invited a local shop owner to her birthday party. He showed up.

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The author's daughter poses with a local shop owner at her birthday party.
The author's daughter was adamant that she invite a local shop owner to her 7th birthday party.

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My extended family decided not to buy Christmas presents this year. Instead, we're all helping each other out with home projects.

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Rachel Reva and her sister building furniture
The author (left) is helping her sister out for Christmas.

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My dad died 3 years ago. I'm learning how to celebrate the holidays without him.

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The author's father making cookies and putting up blue Christmas lights with her son.
The author remembers her father over the holidays by telling his stories and looking at blue Christmas lights with her son.

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