My partner and I met with a divorce lawyer before our wedding. These were our 5 biggest takeaways.

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My then-fiancé and I met with a divorce attorney before our wedding.

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When we go on family vacations, one of us arrives 3 days early without our kid. It's the secret to our happy marriage.

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My husband and I opened a joint bank account years before getting married. Pooling our money made us feel like more of a team.

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The author and her husband opened a joint bank account years before they got married.

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My husband and I made a pact never to divorce, even when it felt impossible. 30 years later, I'm glad we stayed.

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The author and her husband have been married for 30 years.

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Marrying a surgery resident has redefined how I think about relationships. Support is picking up the slack without keeping score.

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The author's husband is a surgeon.

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We've been married for years, but we both love traveling alone. Solo trips have made our marriage stronger.

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The writer on a solo trip in San Juan.
I traveled to San Juan without my husband, and the solo trip only made our relationship stronger.

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When my husband wanted to retire early, I agreed to do the same. But I hated retirement life, so I went back to work.

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The author (not pictured) struggled with early retirement.

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The return of the wife guy: Why loving Priscilla made Mark Zuckerberg cool

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My husband handles all the outside chores, and I handle the inside ones. This compromise is the key to happiness in our marriage.

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The author (not pictured) and her husband split their house chores evenly.

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This couple holds an annual 'goals meeting.' In 2024, they saved 6 figures and traveled to Greece and Italy.

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Durelle and Samantha Bailey at a coworking space.
Samantha and Durelle Bailey book a meeting room at a coworking space every year to discuss New Year's goals.

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